Thanksgiving

We had a great Thanksgiving weekend!!! We're lucky enough to get two. Wednesday my mom and I headed over to my grandmother's (Dad had to work so he came Thursday morning). First Max got to meet his best friend Noah:

Thursday we had a wonderful dinner at my grandmother's and Max got to show off his cuteness!

Then the poor guy caught mommy's cold so luckily Friday was just a quiet day at home (though I did get to sneak out to go shopping when dad was done work! Black Friday evening was the best, everyone was done shopping I think!)

Then Saturday we got our second Thanksgiving at Grandma Melody's. Aunt Ellie and Uncle Josh and the kids came up. Here is Max with his cousins Emma and Luke!

In other baby news....

My little tiny baby boy slept all alone in his big boy bed last night! (That's his crib, not a real bed). He has been doing so good all week, going up to 5-7 hours not eating at night so we decided its worth a try. I didn't think he'd do it since he hates laying on his back but Daddy went out and bought a really cool mobile which finally settled him and he slept from about 11:30pm-3:30am. Then after he ate at 3:30 he I put him back down in there till 7am when he woke up to eat again. He did much better than mommy who spent a good part of the night watching him on the baby monitor sitting on my nightstand. But I am so proud of my baby boy and I can't tell you how much I appreciate FIVE hours of consecutive sleep at night! Wow!

He's learning other tricks too, like sticking his tongue out and he has tons of smiles and things to say these days.

They really do grow up so fast:)

Moving along...

We're moving along here. Nights are much better, he doesn't need to eat as often or for as long. We also do a bottle before bed now and that sometimes helps him sleep better. The investment in a dual electric pump was well worth it. I feel much more free and he takes the bottle wonderfully. The hand pump, while it worked just fine, wasn't cutting it like I found out I preferred. (And for those who can deal without the hands free, the $150 Lansinoh pump works awesome and is half the price of other good ones).

We're having some issues sleeping on our back. He just hates it, he won't swaddle and he can be sound asleep and still wake up as soon as you lay him down. He still sleeps over half the night on my back/chest. I know this is a terrible habit but we both sleep so well that way. The only way I'm able to calm him in the cradle is with a paci (which I hate but he seems to love) and of course while sleeping he'll spit it out and I have to put it back. But its a process we're working on.

He's getting so big, outgrowing his clothes. And he has all kinds of tricks. He's awesome with his head and pulling up. And now he's starting to react and smile a little bit which is awesome. He'll lay and watch his mobile for a while too.

We still have no routine or schedule (but with having bottles around all the time it doesn't matter as much). Some days he'll still sleep all day, others he'll eat all day but that's just the way it is and I still can't imagine forcing a schedule on the poor spoiled baby. The only thing I'm trying to shift is his nighttime. He tends to take a good nap late in the day and not go to bed till 11pm-1am and then we sleep till 9:30 or 10:30am so we're trying to shift that earlier.

So that's what is going on with Max.

In other news....

My mom bought a house. Its an adorable townhouse that has a very homey feel. We're very excited. She closes on December 4th so for now we're just picking out floors and paint colors.

And Nate has started to work from home! Its awesome. He can even work in his PJ's like he is this morning. It saves almost 2 hours in commuting each day, plus he gets an hour lunch and some breaks so he can see his boy. He'll just have to go in to the office every Thursday. We're so excited he got this, just have to keep the little one from crying too loud!

One Month Old!

I can't believe he's a whole month already!

My how things have changed. Even reading back on the blog, things seem to change every day. We have no "normal" or routine or schedule or anything. Not the easiest for a control freak but probably good for me every now and then. He still eats every 1-4 hours and often for an hour at a time. I've finally broken down and ordered an electric pump so we can start pumping a lot more and taking bottles more often (which he takes in about 10 minutes) so we don't have to spend 8 hours a day eating and we'll be able to plan things a bit more. Its a little sad, he really just loves nursing and its 50% a comfort thing so he's never in a big hurry. But the little bugger has a serious temper so when he wants to nurse, you better be ready!

We figure at the rate he's going he'll be running around the house by Christmas. When laying down on his back, if you let him grip your fingers he'll put himself completely up, multiple times. His other fun trick is that he can hold himself up so when you have him up on your chest he likes to push away and show you that you don't need to hold his head. The scariest thing was the other day at tummy time he was actually wiggling himself a bit forward. He's stronger than I am when I'm trying to bend his limbs for dressing.

He has fussier days and often has some gas issues but other than being hungry or gassy he's pretty good. He loves riding in the car, it usually knocks him out.

His expressions are priceless, while sleeping or awake. He loves looking around now and he loves his music and dancing. We still love to fall asleep together with him laying on my chest and we allow it sometimes as long as he'll still go down in his cradle and pack and play when we need him too. We both just sleep so much better that way cause he loves the contact and I don't have to watch him if he's right on my chest. Its a shame they have to sleep on their backs now cause he loves being the other way.

Its great to have Mom-Mom here to help, she entertains him a lot and he gives her a lot of funny looks. And daddy just can't wait to get home to see his boy.

I just can't believe how much he's grown!

We'll be taking pictures with George every month.

This was 3 days old!

4 weeks

He looked so cute this day in his cords...

His first trip in the bouncer. It vibrates and it was confusing him a bit.

Happy Halloween and 3 weeks!

Max was SO excited for Halloween....

Some 3 week updates....

I have a VERY slow eater. Some days each time he eats its over an hour and then the times he doesn't eat for long he eats again in under an hour. He's a hungry little boy and he should be on milk mustache commercials, its pretty funny. He's on no schedule but he's usually fairly good at night. He eats at least every 3 hours so I never get much consecutive sleep but he's usually good about going right back down and those times he can't settle or I just NEED more sleep, he sleeps on my chest and he's out for a while so we both get some good sleep then. I do have quite the TV schedule now though. Its amazing what is on in the middle of the night. All kinds of infomercials selling very interesting things. PCN however does have Deutche Welle on for hours in the early morning so thats kind of fun to get my German TV time in. Fresh Prince is also on a lot so thats a good fall back when HGTV goes to infomercials at 3am.....sad huh....

He still has all that hair. He likes his baths now. We give him his bath after I have, or someone, has, gotten a shower so the bathroom is all warm. He still hates being cold and naked, diaper changes are still a scream most of the time. He's also getting projectile and I have to try to keep him "covered" during changes but again, because he just loves it so, he's usually crying and wiggling so that's not always easy. I also have figured out how to diaper him in a way that he's not leaking all over so that saves me a lot of laundry and keeps us all a bit drier. He's starting to outgrow some of the newborn clothes but it really depends on the brand.

Other than all that exciting stuff he totally cracks us up. He makes the funniest noises and faces and is really just hours of entertainment. We have so much fun, I sometimes miss him when he does sleep for a while.

He's always good when we go out too so I hope we keep that up. We even made it to church on Sunday and we've been house hunting and shopping and to Grandma's. He seems to like riding in the car.... walks are still iffy but I think fresh air is good for both of us!

Anyway, that's our Max in week 3, I can't believe he's almost a month old. It seems like we just "got" him. We couldn't e happier though!